With supportive and inspiring people. Sometimes this is very difficult. Many people are co-dependent and deeply intertwined with people that jeopardize their attempts at recovery and contribute to their destruction. This is hard, but it must be done. If they are willing to respect the new you and your new life, then they can be a part of it. If not, then you will have to express that you care for them and wish them well, but that your health and happiness requires you to make dramatic changes in you life. It is a matter of life and death.