Recommended Tips for a Successful Recovery
Do absolutely everything that it takes. If it takes going to meetings everyday, then do it. Losing your health, your family, your career, and invariably your life, is drastic!
“It is not enough that we do our best; sometimes we must do what is required.” – Winston S. Churchill
It is a characteristic of your body. Live comfortably, not bitterly, with this understanding. You simply cannot change, trick, or outsmart your physiological make-up. Accept this, just as you accept your height, eye color, food intolerances, and allergies.
Instead of glamorizing a delusion of a satisfying, controlled drink.
That you feel comfortable with, 12 step or otherwise. Initially it may be very uncomfortable to meet and speak with strangers. With time, they will not be strangers and they will provide you with camaraderie and unending support. They will help save your life. And you will help save theirs. Remember, it takes time to find the right group. Most people visit 4-6 different groups before they settle on the one that they feel most comfortable with. There exists countless different Flavors of group meetings. If youӶe had a bad experience in the past, try again. Try a different time, day, or format style of meeting. Group support is very important for long-term, durable recovery. AA, Smart Recovery, and Celebrate Recovery are a few of the popular and available group support networks. Find the one that you respond best to. But find one!
When you are ready, give of yourself. Serve others. Sponsor another alcoholic. Find purpose. You receive blessings in giving. Find yourself, by losing yourself, in the service of others.Ԋ
Never allow someone or some situation to wrestle and possess control of you! Do not allow resentments or emotions mentally drive you to drink. Just as no one physically forces you to use or drink, refuse to allow anything or anyone to mentally compel you to hurt yourself. It is your dominion. You are the master. Own it. Own you! Don’t relinquish your power.
It is not the end of the world. Discard the failure mentality. Your goal is long-term sobriety. Get back on track and continue to plug away. Sometimes a lapse can serve to reinforce you path and goals. You may have an epiphany that using is not fun, not healthy, dreadful, and that you never want to be there again. It can also help you identify certain triggers/emotions that need attention.
“Never confuse a single defeat with a final defeat.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald
When the thought of a drink comes to mind. Let it serve as a healthy alarm to remind you of the perils. Use your tools. React with poise, in control of your life.
Even for the struggle and lessons. Avoid self-pity with ferocity.
Go to meetings. Join a team. Go to the dog park. Go read at a coffee shop.
Alcohol thoroughly disrupts the sleep cycle and alcoholics invariably get poor quality and inadequate sleep for years. Your body needs rest. Listen to it. Inadequate sleep ? increased stress ? increased anxiety ? increased susceptibility to emotions ? increased cravings to drink.
In recovery, the damaged brain has crossed wires and hunger may manifest as a craving to drink. Have something available to nibble on. In addition, a healthy and wholesome diet helps accelerate brain circuitry repair.
Exercise stimulates natural endorphins, and stimulates the restoration of depleted Dopamine production. There is no better way available. It will improve mood, improve sleep, and improve Ҳelations. Exercise will decrease cravings. Exercise is essential to wellness.
You will know deep down the certain places that you should avoid, particularly in the early part of your recovery. It does not require a lot of attention or drama, just simply be quietly and assuredly resolute in your avoidance of places where your fragile recovery may not be safe. If you don’s want to slip, don’s go where it’s slippery.
With fulfilling and restorative Ҵhings. As you are no longer wasting your life by sitting in a bar or on the couch drinking or using, fill this newly found time with healthy activities. Change your routine. Exercise. Change your diet. Exercise. Adhere to regular sleeping patterns. Exercise. Take a class. Exercise. Read. Exercise. Eliminate idle time. Hike. Learn Spanish. Do something. Take a walk. Get out into nature. Take up yoga. Exercise…
With supportive and inspiring people. Sometimes this is very difficult. Many people are co-dependent and deeply intertwined with people that jeopardize their attempts at recovery and contribute to their destruction. This is hard, but it must be done. If they are willing to respect the new you and your new life, then they can be a part of it. If not, then you will have to express that you care for them and wish them well, but that your health and happiness requires you to make dramatic changes in you life. It is a matter of life and death.
Establish a reliable support network and use it. If you are in a crisis? call! If you are thinking of taking a drink? call! If you are planning on using? call!
Talk to friends. Talk to family. Talk to strangers. Talk to your therapist, recovery coach, and counselors. Talk in your group meetings. Communicate your feelings, your regrets, your fears, and your hopes. Tap into every source of support that is available. Tell a stranger that you have 3 weeks sobriety. Communicating will help you create a web of support that will motive and uplift you when you need it.
You can do this, and you will do this. Know that it won’t be easy. And know that some days are harder than others. But be resolute, and never give up hope.
Breath! Commit to a sober today. And do it again tomorrow. Be patient with yourself. Don’t go sprinting out of the gates. Start slow and steady, under control. Pace yourself.
“I am a slow walker, but I never walk back.” – Abraham Lincoln